Nestled in the Northern Woods of Maine, just a few miles from Mt. Katahdin, on the shores of Ambejejus Lake are two cabins built by my father many years ago. This is the place from which I write today.....
Up here, the cabins are called "camps," and when you are here, you are "up to camp." When I was a child, we had only one of the camps. We did not have electric, an indoor toilet, or running hot water. We retrieved our drinking water from a spring some miles up the Golden Road. We would transport it in plastic jugs and dump it into a barrel that then had a line to the drinking water spout of the kitchen. All other water was lake water. Washing dishes meant boiling water on the stove and then carrying it to the sink. Likewise, taking a bath meant boiling water on the stove and carrying it to the tub, where it was mixed with cold lake water. For the most part, we kids (my two brothers and I) bathed in the lake -- shampoo & soap were always kept handy at the dock. We read by gas light, and reading was a favorite past time of mine. No televisions, no computers (of course, back then, no one had a personal computer), no telephones. Going to the bathroom at night meant bravely taking a flash light up the path to the outhouse, hoping and praying a bear would not lay in your path.
We saw a lot of bears when I was a kid, not at our camp but in Baxter State Park. This was when the park had campground dumps where campers dumped their trash (now there are no dumps and there is a carry-in, carry-out policy). We often took a drive in the early evening to one of the dumps where we would spend an hour or so watching different bears. We also saw (and still see) a lot of moose up here. A favorite spot is at Sandy Stream Pond, also in Baxter State Park.
Once a week, we would go "to town," which meant a visit to the closest town, Millinocket. There, we would do laundry (always one of my chores), go food shopping, visit the library (I was limited by how many books I could carry -- about ten, depending on the length), and stop at the post office (my favorite stop, since I would receive a week's worth of mail from my friends back home, especially Diane & Terra Lee) and would likewise mail all of the letters I had written). If there were any other errands, we would take care of them as well.
My parents came up to camp every summer, for the whole summer, from the time I was ten until just three years ago. I came up for the whole summer until I was a sophomore in college (with the exception of the summer between my senior year in high school and freshman year in college.... that summer I spent lifeguarding and hanging out with my high school friends, but, even that summer, Diane, Terra Lee & I came up for a week or so). When I was fifteen, I got a summer job at the Trading Post, a little general store that sold gas, beer, smokes, bread & milk, nightcrawlers and other worms for fishing, and various other necessities. It was the last stop in civilization for anyone trekking to Baxter State Park or climbing Mt. Katahdin (a terminus point for the Appalachian Trail). I worked for an amazing woman named Teddy Boynton. (I wanted to name Maxine "Teddy," but couldn't find a proper name that I liked from which we could get the nickname "Teddy.") I worked hard and made a lot of friends. The Trading Post would be my summer job spot for many years (every year I was there through my sophomore year in college).
I stopped coming to Maine sometime in college, and didn't return until after I was in law school, and then only for a week or so at a time. After law school, I didn't come back to Maine until I was working for Dick Sprague and, again, could only come for one or two weeks a summer.
By this time, my parents had rennonvated the main camp (added electric, an indoor bathroom, running hot water, etc.) and built a second camp, which everyone called (and still calls) "the red camp." Over the years, they rennovated the red camp as well. Now both camps are completely modernized, and both have great decks to sit out on, while taking in the sounds of nature (and children playing).
Three years ago, my parents decided they enjoyed their retirement in Florida too much to come up to camp anymore. Two years ago, they most generously gave me both camps. We spent last summer here and are spending this summer here. I hope we will spend all of our future summers here! It is so beautiful, peaceful, and calming.
While I am very grateful for the modern updates to the camps and am happy to have a television on rainy days (of which there are very few), I do wish my children were forced to rough it a little more! I think that my love of reading and overall survival skills were nutured and honed here!
Jody, the love of my life, also loves it here. He loved being at camp as a kid, and loves it even more now. Jody visited us with his family when he was just ten years old -- we celebrated my sister-in-law Jackie's second birthday up here! My in-laws continued to come up to visit my parents every summer once we children were grown, until the falling out between them and my parents (that's a story for another day). My parents, my in-laws, and our neighbors here (Bobbie and Max Mansfield) were all fast friends and had many happy times here.
Maxine was named after Max, who was killed in a car accident when I was about five months pregnant with Maxine. They had sold their camp the summer before Maxine was born. This was a huge disappointment since they had built their camp the summer before we built ours and it is hard for me to remember when I did not know them! They were a great couple, and Max was one of the finest men we'd ever known (hence, the name Maxine). I was good summer friends with their daughter, Melanie, and we did a lot of fun things together -- hiking, boating, and even going to the Coast for lobster!
Our new neighbors are a really nice couple from town. They have three little girls who are a source of endless playtime with Maxine. It's wonderful to watch her building wonderful memories of her own up here! Maxine has another good friend up here -- Vivi. Remember Teddy, who I worked for as a teen at the Trading Post? Well, Viv is her great granddaughter, born just six weeks after Maxine! (Sadly, Teddy passed away right after Gus was born but I remained friends with her children). Jody & I are good friends with Vivi's mom (Bethaney) and dad (Thomas, the son of Teddy's daughter, Laurie), and they introduced us to another fantastic family -- The Hradels from Michigan. Meg & Craig have two daughters, also right around Maxine's age -- Bella and Eva. Needless to say, Maxine is in heaven up here, what with so many little girls to play with!
Gabriel is at the age where he wants to be home with his friends. He has had several friends visit over the years, and enjoys the time he spends with them here. This summer, however, his friends have only been able to visit for a couple of days and so he is itching to get home. :-((
Gus loves it up here but he is home, enrolled the summer program for the University of the Arts. He will be up at the end of the summer -- hopefully before Gabe goes back for soccer practice. (Last summer, they were not here together at all!)
As for the boys, I always felt like I brought boys to Maine and took young men home. (I realize that, after the first time, I must have been bringing young men here and bringing slightly more mature young men home, but you get the picture.) While here, the boys can usually be found tubing, wakeboarding, kneeboarding, swimming and/or fishing.
At night, Jody & I try to steer Gabe away from television. He has learned how to play pinochle, which we play three-handed. Meg & Craig introduced us to another great couple -- Yolanda and Conrad -- who are big pinochle players, and we've played with them. Last week, we played with them, and let Gabe play too, so we played five-handed. This was how I played as a kid with my late maternal grandparents (Grammy & Poppy) (the "O" for the original "Poppy," Jody having claimed that moniker now). It's wonderful making memories with my son based on memories I made with my grandparents! Actually, Jody & I played many a pinochle game with his late paternal grandparents (Little Mom Mom and Pop Pop), so the pinochle memories run on both sides and are rich indeed!
Well, I think that pretty much wraps up today's blog. I wanted everyone to get an idea of where I am, what it's like, and what growing up here in the summers meant to me. I have added a couple of links to Facebook albums of photos from our time here last summer, but I'm not sure whether they will show up on the blog. If they do, enjoy them!! If they don't, email me and I will send you the links.
Until next time..........